What is Love?

What is love:

- to a single man & woman?
When we are single, we will look forward to a bf /gf.... how he/she is like, will he/she dote me like I'm the most precious/important person in the world?

- to a couple in a relationship?
Dating couples are the most 幸福 & happiest people in the world, esp when love had just blossom between them & starting of a relationship. The dating couple will give surprises to their bf/gf, say/sms/msn/ym.... "I Love You" whenever they missed each other!

- to a married couple?
Where has all the "romantic" moments they shared went to? No more kisses, no more I Love You, no more hugging? Everything seems like hidden somewhere deeply in their hearts... taking for granted that their spouse will "KNOW" how they felt for them. No need anymore "romantic" actions to show their love. Izzit really like that?

For a husband, he may think that after settling down with a marriage, he should focus & concentrate on his career... Bring the bread home & the rest will pieced up on their own.

For a wife, she maybe thinking how come my husband never loved me like before? We were not like that last time? We would call to chit-chat when there's chance, drop a "I Love You" sms anytime, give a kiss or hug when saw each other for the 1st time in a day! Now? Call to chit-chat will only get a "The M1 Customer you are calling is unavailable right now, please try again later!" or drop a "I Love You!" sms but getting no reply! SIANZ...

Time to pay more attention to your marriage, MEN!!!!! Else very fast, your marriage will be on the rocks coz we woman will pick up a quarrel anytime & anywhere!!! So DO something now!!!

**Psstt... Men!! We dun need material things to make us happy! We NEED your love, MAN!!!!

- to a divorced man & woman?
Sad to hear that a "used-to-be" loving couple actually filed for divorced! Why had a married couple had to end their marriage this way & not till old age when death do us apart?

Tot "till death do us apart" is what we had been wishing for when we were still single & looking forward to a happy relationship; to a dating couple who had been wishing for their wonderful future; to a married couple who had vowed on their wedding day that they will do so & trying to do so after married?

But why do they had to go separate ways? Due to many reasons but mainly these are some very important reasons:

1) Extramarital affairs - This is a taboo to all marriage!!! Let it be husband or wife who stray? Why do they stray? More temptations outside? Why dun they find that their spouse is tempting anymore? Lack of communications, like what I mentioned above? Take for granted that our love ones will "know" how we feel w/o romantic actions? But what if they don't? Anyway, do you NEED to stray? COMMUNICATE & improve on your marriage & not keeping quiet!!! There's no way your spouse will "feel" your love if you just "think" they know! Advice: Open your eyes big big & survey the people around you, your spouse might be getting "hooked" by someone you know or near you!!!! Dun be a fool!!!

2) Family strains - Strains? What kind of strains? In laws? Well, everyone knows that "婆媳关系" is the big headache for the husband coz they are sandwiched in between mother & wife!!! A kind of strain which inherited for many centuries! Advice: Look open!!! Say so easy? There's nothing much we can do if our husband is a fillal son! Everyone will have their own way to solve or avoid the strain from spreading out!! Do your best!!!

* Okie, no good advice from me as I'm into this situation & trying to look open but still not much open yet!

3) Emotional/physical abuse - How can anyone withstand abuse? Emotionally or physically abuse "hurt" as much! Emotional... a "higher" stage of abuse. A mental kind... can caused your spouse to become "mentally unstable" when you talk about your "real or imaginary" affairs!! Can die, man!!! Stop "mentally" killing your lovely wife softly with your words!!!!! Physical abuse, GET LOST!! Advice: Kill me, pls! (Heehee.... joking! Get professional help asap!!!!)